For a Better Understanding Between Parent and Child为了父母与孩子之间的更好的了解

For a Better Understanding Between Parent and Child为了父母与孩子之间的更好的了解

For a Better Understanding Between Parent and Child

        Nowadays there is often a lack of un derstanding between parent and child. Parents often complain about their children's "unreasonable" behavior, while children usually think their parents too "old-fashioned." Then, when a child has a problem, he usually goes to his intimate friends for sympathy and advice, leaving his parents totally in the dark.
        There are some possible reasons for the present situation. First, the two generations, having grown up at different times, have different likes and dislikes for the things around them and thus have little in common to talk about. Second, parents and children, due to the misunder standing between them, may even feel it uncomfortable to sit face to face with each other talking. Finally, with the pace of modern life becoming faster and faster, both parent and child are too busy to spare enough time to exchange ideas, even if they find it necessary to communicate. As a result, the gap between them is growing wider and wider.
        To bridge this so-called generationgap, in my opinion, both parent and child should make an effort. The children should respect their seniors. The older generation, on the other hand, should show solicitude for the young. As for their differences, both generations should make allowance for each other. If they will take the first step by actually talking to one another, it won't be long before the arrival of a better understanding be tween parent and child.That's the way I am with my parents. I hope I can improve through my efforts.

为了父母与孩子之间的更好的了解

        如今，父母和孩子之间经常缺乏了解。父母经常抱怨孩子的“不合理”行为，而孩子们通常也认为他们的父母太  “老套”。那么当一个孩子有问题的时候，他通常会去找亲密的朋友的同情和建议，让他的父母完全一摸黑。
        这种情况有一些可能的原因。首先，在不同时期长大的两代人对于周围的事物有不同的喜好。因此，很少有共同话题。第二，父母和孩子，由于他们之间的误解，甚至会觉得坐在一起面对面交谈是不舒服的。最后，随着现代生活节奏越来越快，父母子女太忙，没有时间交流思想，即使他们觉得有必要进行交流。结果，它们之间的差距越来越广泛。
        为了弥补这个所谓的代沟 ，在我看来，父母孩子双方都应该努力。孩子们应该尊重他们的长辈。另一方面，老一辈应该对年轻人表示关心。至于他们之间的差异，这两代人都应该互相体谅。如果他们能通过实际的交谈来迈出第一步，那么父母和孩子之间的理解就不远了。我和父母之间就是这个样子。希望通过我的努力能改善一下。