你身边的人，决定了你的人生高度The people around you, determines the height of your life

The people around you, determines the height of your life


Smell the chicken dance this story, everyone has heard of. It is about the Eastern Jin generals Zu Tiu young people with ambitions, and friends Liu Kun together with strong, cock from that, the sword of martial arts story.

 

But read this allusions, you will find it very interesting. Zu Ti and Liu Kun was the same as Bo, because friendship deep like-minded, so live together. One day, Zuti occasionally heard the cock in the middle of the night to play, so he called Liu Kun asked why.

 

Liu Kun said with concern: "Midnight cock crow, I am afraid not auspicious."

 

Zuti did not think so, he said: "This is clearly urging us to martial arts call, after we just hear the cock will get up the sword how?

 

Liu Kun is pleased to agree, from two people no matter when the cock heard, will immediately get up to practice, cold to summer, Jianguang dancing, never had slack off. It is precisely because they encourage each other, supervision of each other, two people later have become a rare civil and military all-in-one, one made the town of West generals, one made Zhonglang will.

 

And if the time is not in the side of Liu Kun is Zu Ti, but another silence of the lazy people who have passed, presumably this story will have a very different outcome, at least classical literature, there will be no smell of chicken this great story.

 

Sometimes, who is with you, what kind of person you are with is really important. Because, what level of people around you, you will slowly become what level. So, always go close to a positive energy, accustomed to excellent, high-level people.

 


Have to admit that the majority of the people we meet in this world are only with our side of the edge, hastily pass by, they will disappear in the sea.

 

Life Road, although the twists and turns, but can really affect our, and always just three or five people, and these three or five individuals, around us.

 The people around you, determines the height of your life


Everyone who is reading or reading a university has experienced a dormitory effect.


In a dormitory, if someone is in love, then other people will have to find love; if someone early to go back to the bubble library, then other people will actively respond to busy occupying Kaoyan; even if someone likes music, then listen The song will be more people, if someone keen to play football, then the dormitory will be the most piles of stinky shoes.

 

The so-called near the red, near ink black, in a group, if you maverick, will feel all sorts of discomfort. University life is open, so many of your classmates, but give you the most profound impact, often with the dormitory that few guys.

 

Because, you live with the same to live with the same, life trajectory similar to bow looked not seen, you around each other around, dip each other's breath, destined to tend to the same level.

 

And after entering the workplace, there will be colleagues effect. Colleagues, is a strange existence, it is not a loved one, but more than the time to get along with your loved ones.

 

If you have a rigorous work and full of passion to lead the leadership, then you will gradually approach him, began to pay attention to appearance, thinking become careful, more mature state of mind, career and life are as if through the vista, suddenly open stand up.

 

But if it is around you is good at gossip and parents in the short colleagues, every day complaining that men are not good things, picky mother is the world to evil, where life can not understand where, then one day, you will be infected with decadence, Pernicious and a bit of a hostility.

 


Girlfriend before marriage, is a passing moonlight family, enjoy the school. But she married a very reliable man, not only pragmatic, and quite a feeling, every day to plan the cause, plan the future, the holidays have to do charity.

 

The man who is too dazzling light, married soon after, Gui honey even some ashamed, gradually can not match the sense of crisis.

 

So, she had changed the little woman to do to send, will eat and drink the mind to go to school, in the spare time, but also learned to bake.


At first, she roasted Maccaron looks like a mess, but he enthusiastically encouraged her to say: "life is ideal is the best thing, what kind of seed will be knot what fruit." She doubled confidence, Then the teeth persisted.

 

Now, the girlfriend's baking craft is quite good, friends eat her dessert are full of praise, and her mental state is never had radiant, the same facial features, there are very different look, as a change of a New face.

 

By the influence of men, she began to pay attention to charity, although only to give clothing, volunteer and other small things, but her heart is increasingly abundance of wealth, as if life can be successful.

 

And see her so excellent and positive, men are more spiritual shaking, two people you catch me, evenly matched, in each other's eyes more precious, become the best scenery.

 

Sometimes, your partner, determines the height of your life, in a good marriage, men and women must be concentric, and then peer, and finally grow. Who's slow pace, they have to catch up, if not catch up with the pace of the partner, in the marriage of the fork, they can only tears farewell, their respective fly.

 


To the library library, see the reading room wearing a pair of white parent-shirt mother and daughter sitting side by side with the study, the picture is unusually beautiful.

 

Thirty years old woman, solemn attitude, dignified look, long hair neatly hanging in the ear, turned the book elegant fingers smart. Sitting on her side of the girl, seven or eight years old look, straight back chest Xi Xian beautiful, read the picture of the attitude, is the same solemn.

 

The sun poured from the skylight, sprinkled on the mother and daughter, so that they have shares of natural extravagance, it is kind of respect for books, but also awe of life.

The people around you, determines the height of your life


Reading is the lowest threshold to the noble, and love reading the parents of the child's life icing on the cake, you want to make the child what kind of person, their first to become what kind of person.

 

I think of my neighbor, her child just two years old, she will throw the child to grandpa to take care of their daily go out to play mahjong, neighbors waiting to see the matter, are very surprised. Can be heard later, the original her mother is a mahjong mad, and the brand is quite bad, so, everyone surprised the meaning of the naught, but sadly "no wonder".

 

A mother who is obsessed with mahjong who often forget to cook cooking, cultivates a daughter who will be babbling and left out of the gambling daughter, is not surprising, but this daughter, in turn, what kind of children The

 

A person opened his eyes to see the world, that is, his heart of the world, his parents look like, is the way after their own. Parental level, determines the height of the child.



Everyone is living in circles, friends circle, family circle, career circle. These circles are the areas you are most familiar with, and those in the circle who deal with you the most, the deepest impact on you, and even determine your level of life.

 

We are so, from childhood to juvenile, accompanied by the parents, from the juvenile to the youth, accompanied by the students and friends, and young people, accompanied us most is a partner and colleagues.

 

Their words and deeds, every move, constitute your potential circle of consciousness, about your life direction. Those who bring their own light attributes, can inspire you, illuminate you, and those who bring their own haze property, but will die to hold you, and gently waved his hand, so that you are a dark gray, confused and messy The

 

Whether it is lit, or block, are subtle, you are in which there is no awareness. And you can do, is Shen calm the heart, Benedict keep the bottom line, away from the haze, toward the light.

 

And for those who can not stay away from their loved ones and friends, we may wish to do that comes with light, because the people who bring their own light, his own height of life.

闻鸡起舞这个典故，每个人都听说过。它讲的是东晋将领祖逖年少有壮志，与好友刘琨一起发愤图强，鸡鸣即起、挥剑习武的故事。

 

但细读这个典故，你会发现很有意思。祖逖与刘琨当时同为主簙，因为友谊深厚志同道合，所以居住在一起。有一日，祖逖偶然听到公鸡在半夜打鸣，于是他叫醒刘琨询问何故。

 

刘琨忧心地说：“半夜公鸡鸣叫，恐怕不吉利。”

 

祖逖却不这么想，他说：“这分明是催促我们习武的叫声，以后我们只要听到鸡鸣便起床练剑如何？”

 

刘琨听后欣然同意，从此两个人无论何时听见鸡鸣，都会立即起床练功，寒来暑往，剑光飞舞，从未有过懈怠。也正是因为他们互相鼓励，彼此监督，两个人后来才都成为了难得的文武全才，一个做了镇西将军，一个做了中郎将。

 

而倘若当时在刘琨身边的不是祖逖，而是另外一个默守陈规得过且过的懒惰之人，想必这个故事会有一个截然不同的结局，起码古典文学里，不会有闻鸡起舞这个伟大的典故。

 

有时候，谁在你身边，你跟什么样的人在一起，真的很重要。因为，你身边的人是什么层次，你也会慢慢变成什么层次。所以，永远要去接近一个正能量的、习惯于优秀的、高层次的人。

 


不得不承认，这个世界我们遇到的大多数人，都只与我们有一面之缘，匆匆擦肩而过之后，他们便会消失于人海。

 

人生路虽曲折漫长，但能够真正影响我们的，永远只是那么三五个人，而这三五个人，就围绕在我们身边。

 


每一个正在读或者读过大学的人，都体验过宿舍效应。


在一个宿舍里，如果有人谈恋爱，那么其他人也纷纷会去寻找爱情；如果有人早起晚归泡图书馆，那么其他人也会积极响应忙着占座考研；甚至如果有人喜爱音乐，那么听歌的人就会多，如果有人热衷踢足球，那么宿舍里堆得最多的就会是臭烘烘的球鞋。

 

所谓近朱者赤，近墨者黑，在一个群体里，如果你特立独行，会觉得有百般不适。大学生活虽开阔，你的同学有那么多，可是给予你最深影响的，往往是同宿舍的那几个家伙。

 

因为，你们同吃同住同来同往，生活轨迹相似，低头不见抬头见，你们围绕在彼此身边，浸染着彼此的气息，注定会趋向同一种层次。

 

而进入职场以后，又会有同事效应。同事，是个奇怪的存在，它不是亲人，但却比亲人与你相处的时间更长久。

 

如果你有一位工作严谨细致又充满创造激情的领导，那么你会渐渐趋近于他，开始注意仪容，思维变得缜密，心态愈加成熟，职业和人生都仿佛经历了柳暗花明又一村，突然开阔起来。

 

可若是在你身边围绕的是擅长八卦和家长里短的同事，天天抱怨男人不是好东西，挑剔婆婆是天下至恶，对生活哪哪儿都看不惯，那么总有一天，你也会沾染上颓废、怨毒和几分灼人的戾气。

 


闺蜜在结婚前，是个得过且过的月光族、享乐派。但她却嫁了一个极其靠谱的男人，不仅务实能干，而且相当有情怀，每日里筹谋着事业，计划着未来，假日里还要去做慈善义工。

 

这个男人身上的光芒太过夺目，结婚后不久，闺蜜竟然有些自惭形秽，渐生无法与之相配的危机感。

 

于是，她一改曾经的小女人做派，将吃喝玩乐的心思转到读书上，在工作之余，又学起了烘焙。


起初，她烤出的马卡龙模样丑得一塌糊涂，但他却热情地鼓励她说：“人生有理想是最好的事情，种下什么籽就会结什么果。”她听后信心倍增，便咬牙坚持了下来。

 

如今，闺蜜的烘焙手艺相当不错，朋友们吃着她做的甜点都赞不绝口，而她的精神状态也是从未有过的容光焕发，相同的眉眼，却有迥异的神采，如同换了一副新面孔。

 

受男人的影响，她也开始关注慈善，虽然只是赠衣物、做义工等微小的善事，但她的内心却日益丰盈富足，仿佛人生都得以圆满。

 

而见她如此的优秀和积极，男人也更加精神抖索，两个人你追我赶，势均力敌，在彼此的眼中愈加的珍贵，成为最好的风景。

 

有时候，你的伴侣，决定着你的人生高度，在好的婚姻里，男女必须同心，然后同行，最后同成长。谁的脚步慢了，便要迎头赶上，若追不上伴侣的脚步，在婚姻的分叉口，便只能洒泪告别，各自分飞。

 


去图书馆借书，看到阅览室里一对身着白色亲子衫的母女并肩坐着一起读书，画面异常美丽。

 

三十多岁的女人，姿态郑重，神情端庄，长发整齐的垂在耳边，翻书的手指优雅灵巧。坐在她身边的女童，七八岁的模样，直背挺胸娴静秀美，翻阅绘本的态度，亦是同样的郑重。

 

阳光从天窗倾泻下来，洒在母女两人身上，令她们有股天然的贵气，那是种对书籍的尊重，也是对人生的敬畏。

 


读书是通往高贵的最低门槛，而爱读书的父母是孩子一生的锦上添花，你想令孩子成为什么样的人，自己便首先要成为什么样的人。

 

我想起我的邻居，她的孩子刚满两周岁，她便将孩子丢给爷爷照顾，自己天天外出打麻将，左邻右舍亲见此事，都觉得十分惊诧。可后来又听闻，原来她的母亲便是个麻将狂，而且牌品相当不好，如此，众人惊诧之意便化为乌有，只是唏嘘一声“怪不得”。

 

一个痴迷于麻将常常忘记烧菜做饭的母亲，培养出了一个将咿呀学语的孩子抛之脑后而外出赌博的女儿，并不出人意料，可是这个女儿，又将培养出什么样的孩子呢？

 

一个人睁开眼所看到的世界，就是他心中的世界，他眼中父母的样子，就是以后自己的样子。父母的层次，决定着孩子的高度。



每个人都活在圈子里，朋友圈、亲人圈、职场圈。这些圈子是你最熟悉的领域，而圈子里那些与你交集最多的人，对你的影响最深，甚至决定着你的人生层次。

 

我们皆如此，从幼年到少年，陪伴在身边的是父母，从少年到青年，陪伴在身边的是同学和朋友，而青年以后，陪伴我们最多的是伴侣和同事。

 

他们的一言一行，一举一动，构成你的潜在意识圈，左右着你的人生方向。那些自带光芒属性的人，能激励你、照亮你，而那些自带雾霾属性的人，却会死死拖住你，并且手轻轻一挥，令你前路一片灰暗，迷茫且杂乱。

 

无论是照亮，还是遮挡，都是潜移默化的，你身处其中，毫无察觉。而你能做的，便是沉定本心，笃守底线，远离雾霾，奔向光明。

 

而对于那些无法远离的亲人和朋友，我们不妨就做那个自带光芒的人，因为自带光芒的人，自有他的人生高度。

Nǐ shēnbiān de rén, juédìngle nǐ de rénshēng gāodù


wénjīqǐwǔ zhège diǎngù, měi gèrén dōu tīng shuōguò. Tā jiǎng de shì dōngjìn jiànglǐng zǔ tì niánshào yǒu zhuàngzhì, yǔ hǎoyou liú kūn yīqǐ fāfèn tú qiáng, jī míng jí qǐ, huī jiàn xí wǔ de gùshì.



Dàn xì dú zhège diǎngù, nǐ huì fāxiàn hěn yǒuyìsi. Zǔ tì yǔ liú kūn dāngshí tóng wéi zhǔ bó, yīn wéi yǒu yí shēnhòu zhìtóngdàohé, suǒyǐ jūzhù zài yīqǐ. Yǒuyī rì, zǔ tì ǒurán tīng dào gōngjī zài bànyè dǎmíng, yúshì tā jiào xǐng liú kūn xúnwèn hégù.



Liú kūn yōuxīn dì shuō:“Bànyè gōngjī míngjiào, kǒngpà bù jílì.”



Zǔ tì què bù zhème xiǎng, tā shuō:“Zhè fēnmíng shì cuīcù wǒmen xí wǔ de jiào shēng, yǐhòu wǒmen zhǐyào tīng dào jī míng biàn qǐchuáng liàn jiàn rúhé?”



Liú kūn tīng hòu xīnrán tóngyì, cóngcǐ liǎng gèrén wúlùn hé shí tīngjiàn jī míng, dūhuì lìjí qǐchuáng liàngōng, hán lái shǔ wǎng, jiàn guāng fēiwǔ, cóng wèi yǒuguò xièdài. Yě zhèng shì yīnwèi tāmen hùxiāng gǔlì, bǐcǐ jiāndū, liǎng gèrén hòulái cái dōu chéngwéile nándé de wénwǔ quán cái, yīgè zuòle zhèn xi jiāngjūn, yīgè zuòle zhōng láng jiāng.



Ér tǎngruò dāngshí zài liú kūn shēnbiān de bùshì zǔ tì, ér shì lìngwài yīgè mò shǒu chénguī déguòqiěguò de lǎnduò zhī rén, xiǎngbì zhège gùshì huì yǒuyīgè jiérán bùtóng de jiéjú, qǐmǎ gǔdiǎn wénxué lǐ, bù huì yǒu wénjīqǐwǔ zhège wěidà de diǎngù.



Yǒu shíhou, shuí zài nǐ shēnbiān, nǐ gēn shénme yàng de rén zài yīqǐ, zhēn de hěn zhòngyào. Yīnwèi, nǐ shēnbiān de rén shì shénme céngcì, nǐ yě huì màn man biàn chéng shénme céngcì. Suǒyǐ, yǒngyuǎn yào qù jiējìn yīgè zhèng néngliàng de, xíguàn yú yōuxiù de, gāo céngcì de rén.




Bùdé bù chéngrèn, zhège shìjiè wǒmen yù dào de dà duōshù rén, dōu zhǐ yǔ wǒmen yǒu yīmiàn zhī yuán, cōngcōng cā jiān érguò zhīhòu, tāmen biàn huì xiāoshī yú rén hǎi.



Rénshēng lù suī qūzhé màncháng, dàn nénggòu zhēnzhèng yǐngxiǎng wǒmen de, yǒngyuǎn zhǐshì nàme sānwǔ gèrén, ér zhè sānwǔ gèrén, jiù wéirào zài wǒmen shēnbiān.

Nǐ shēnbiān de rén, juédìngle nǐ de rénshēng gāodù


měi yīgè zhèngzài dú huòzhě dú guo dàxué de rén, dōu tǐyànguò sùshè xiàoyìng.


Zài yīgè sùshè lǐ, rúguǒ yǒurén tán liàn'ài, nàme qítā rén yě fēnfēn huì qù xúnzhǎo àiqíng; rúguǒ yǒurén zǎoqǐ wǎn guī pào túshū guǎn, nàme qítā rén yě huì jījí xiǎngyìng mángzhe zhàn zuò kǎoyán; shènzhì rúguǒ yǒurén xǐ'ài yīnyuè, nàme tīng gē de rén jiù huì duō, rúguǒ yǒurén rèzhōng tī zúqiú, nàme sùshè lǐ duī de zuìduō de jiù huì shì chòu hōnghōng de qiúxié.



Suǒwèi jìn zhū zhě chì, jìn mò zhě hēi, zài yīgè qúntǐ lǐ, rúguǒ nǐ tè lì dúxíng, huì juéde yǒu bǎibān bùshì. Dàxué shēnghuó suī kāikuò, nǐ de tóngxué yǒu nàme duō, kěshì jǐyǔ nǐ zuìshēn yǐngxiǎng de, wǎngwǎng shì tóng sùshè dì nà jǐ gè jiāhuo.



Yīnwèi, nǐmen tóng chī tóng zhù tóng lái tóng wǎng, shēnghuó guǐjī xiāngsì, dītóu bùjiàn táitóu jiàn, nǐmen wéirào zài bǐcǐ shēnbiān, jìnrǎnzhe bǐcǐ de qìxí, zhùdìng huì qūxiàng tóngyī zhǒng céngcì.



Ér jìnrù zhíchǎng yǐhòu, yòu huì yǒu tóngshì xiàoyìng. Tóngshì, shìgè qíguài de cúnzài, tā bùshì qīnrén, dàn què bǐ qīnrén yǔ nǐ xiāngchǔ de shíjiān gèng chángjiǔ.



Rúguǒ nǐ yǒu yī wèi gōngzuò yánjǐn xìzhì yòu chōngmǎn chuàngzào jīqíng de lǐngdǎo, nàme nǐ huì jiànjiàn qū jìn yú tā, kāishǐ zhùyì yíróng, sīwéi biàn de zhěnmì, xīntài yùjiā chéngshú, zhíyè hé rénshēng dōu fǎng fó jīnglìle liǔ'ànhuāmíng yòu yī cūn, túrán kāikuò qǐlái.



Kě ruòshì zài nǐ shēnbiān wéirào de shì shàncháng bāguà hé jiāchánglǐduǎn de tóngshì, tiāntiān bàoyuàn nánrén bùshì hǎo dōngxi, tiāotì pópo shì tiānxià zhì è, duì shēnghuó nǎ nǎ'er dōu kàn bù guàn, nàme zǒng yǒu yītiān, nǐ yě huì zhānrǎn shàng tuífèi, yuàndú hé jǐ fēn zhuó rén de lì qì.




Guīmì zài jiéhūn qián, shìgè déguòqiěguò de yuèguāng zú, xiǎnglè pài. Dàn tā què jiàle yīgè jíqí kào pǔ de nánrén, bùjǐn wùshí nénggàn, érqiě xiāngdāng yǒu qínghuái, měi rì lǐ chóumóuzhe shìyè, jìhuàzhe wèilái, jiàrì lǐ hái yào qù zuò císhàn yìgōng.



Zhège nánrén shēnshang de guāngmáng tàiguò duómù, jiéhūn hòu bùjiǔ, guīmì jìngrán yǒuxiē zìcánxínghuì, jiàn shēng wúfǎ yǔ zhī xiāngpèi de wéijī gǎn.



Yúshì, tā yī gǎi céngjīng de xiǎo nǚrén zuò pài, jiāng chīhē wánlè de xīnsī zhuǎn dào dúshū shàng, zài gōngzuò zhī yú, yòu xué qǐle hōngbèi.


Qǐchū, tā kǎo chū de mǎ kǎ lóng múyàng chǒu dé yītāhútu, dàn tā què rèqíng de gǔlì tā shuō:“Rénshēng yǒu lǐxiǎng shì zuì hǎo de shìqíng, zhǒng xià shénme zǐ jiù huì jié shénme guǒ.” Tā tīng hòu xìnxīn bèizēng, biàn yǎoyá jiānchíle xiàlái.



Rújīn, guīmì de hōngbèi shǒuyì xiāngdāng bùcuò, péngyǒumen chīzhe tā zuò de tiándiǎn dōu zàn bù juékǒu, ér tā de jīngshén zhuàngtài yěshì cóng wèi yǒuguò de róngguāng huànfā, xiāngtóng de méiyǎn, què yǒu jiǒngyì de shéncǎi, rútóng huànle yī fù xīn miànkǒng.



Shòu nánrén de yǐngxiǎng, tā yě kāishǐ guānzhù císhàn, suīrán zhǐshì zèng yīwù, zuò yìgōng děng wéixiǎo de shànshì, dàn tā de nèixīn què rìyì fēngyíng fùzú, fǎngfú rénshēng dōu déyǐ yuánmǎn.



Ér jiàn tā rúcǐ de yōuxiù hé jījí, nánrén yě gèngjiā jīngshén dǒu suǒ, liǎng gèrén nǐ zhuī wǒ gǎn, shìjūnlìdí, zài bǐcǐ de yǎnzhōng yùjiā de zhēnguì, chéngwéi zuì hǎo de fēngjǐng.



Yǒu shíhou, nǐ de bànlǚ, juédìngzhe nǐ de rénshēng gāodù, zài hǎo de hūnyīn lǐ, nánnǚ bìxū tóngxīn, ránhòu tóngxíng, zuìhòu tóng chéngzhǎng. Shuí de jiǎobù mànle, biàn yào yíngtóugǎnshàng, ruò zhuī bù shàng bànlǚ de jiǎobù, zài hūnyīn de fēn chā kǒu, biàn zhǐ néng sǎlèi gàobié, gèzì fèn fēi.




Qù túshū guǎn jiè shū, kàn dào yuèlǎn shì lǐ yī duì shēnzhe báisè qīnzǐ shān de mǔ nǚ bìngjiān zuòzhe yīqǐ dúshū, huàmiàn yìcháng měilì.



Sānshí duō suì de nǚrén, zītài zhèngzhòng, shénqíng duānzhuāng, zhǎng fā zhěngqí de chuí zài ěr biān, fān shū de shǒuzhǐ yōuyā língqiǎo. Zuò zài tā shēnbiān de nǚtóng, qībā suì de múyàng, zhí bèi tǐng xiōng xiánjìng xiùměi, fānyuè huìběn de tàidù, yì shì tóngyàng de zhèngzhòng.



Yángguāng cóng tiānchuāng qīngxiè xiàlái, sǎ zài mǔ nǚ liǎng rén shēnshang, lìng tāmen yǒu gǔ tiānrán de guì qì, nà shì zhǒng duì shūjí de zūnzhòng, yěshì duì rénshēng de jìngwèi.

Nǐ shēnbiān de rén, juédìngle nǐ de rénshēng gāodù


dúshū shì tōng wǎng gāoguì de zuìdī ménkǎn, ér ài dúshū de fùmǔ shì háizi yīshēng de jǐnshàngtiānhuā, nǐ xiǎng lìng hái zǐ chéngwéi shénme yàng de rén, zìjǐ biàn shǒuxiān yào chéngwéi shénme yàng de rén.



Wǒ xiǎngqǐ wǒ de línjū, tā de háizi gāng mǎn liǎng zhōusuì, tā biàn jiāng háizi diū gěi yéye zhàogù, zìjǐ tiāntiān wàichū dǎ májiàng, zuǒ lín yòu shèqīn jiàn cǐ shì, dōu juéde shífēn jīngchà. Kě hòulái yòu tīngwén, yuánlái tā de mǔqīn biàn shìgè májiàng kuáng, érqiě pái pǐn xiàng dāng bù hǎo, rúcǐ, zhòngrén jīngchà zhī yì biàn huà wéi wūyǒu, zhǐshì xīxū yīshēng “guàibùdé”.



Yīgè chīmí yú májiàng chángcháng wàngjì shāo cài zuò fàn de mǔqīn, péiyǎng chūle yīgè jiāng yīyā xué yǔ de háizi pāo zhī nǎo hòu ér wàichū dǔbó de nǚ'ér, bìng bù chūrényìliào, kěshì zhège nǚ'ér, yòu jiāng péiyǎng chū shénme yàng de háizi ní?



Yīgèrén zhēng kāi yǎn suǒ kàn dào de shìjiè, jiùshì tā xīnzhōng de shìjiè, tā yǎnzhōng fùmǔ de yàngzi, jiùshì yǐhòu zìjǐ de yàngzi. Fùmǔ de céngcì, juédìngzhe háizi de gāodù.



Měi gè rén dōu huó zài quānzi lǐ, péngyǒu quān, qīnrén quān, zhíchǎng quān. Zhèxiē quānzi shì nǐ zuì shúxī de lǐngyù, ér quānzi lǐ nàxiē yǔ nǐ jiāojí zuìduō de rén, duì nǐ de yǐngxiǎng zuìshēn, shènzhì juédìngzhe nǐ de rénshēng céngcì.



Wǒmen jiē rúcǐ, cóng yòunián dào shàonián, péibàn zài shēnbiān de shì fùmǔ, cóng shàonián dào qīngnián, péibàn zài shēnbiān de shì tóngxué hé péngyǒu, ér qīngnián yǐhòu, péibàn wǒmen zuìduō de shì bànlǚ hé tóngshì.



Tāmen de yī yán yīxíng, yījǔ yīdòng, gòuchéng nǐ de qiánzài yìshí quān, zuǒyòuzhe nǐ de rénshēng fāngxiàng. Nàxiē zì dài guāngmáng shǔxìng de rén, néng jīlì nǐ, zhào liàng nǐ, ér nàxiē zì dài wù mái shǔxìng de rén, què huì sǐ sǐ tuō zhù nǐ, bìngqiě shǒuqīng qīng yī huī, lìng nǐ qián lù yīpiàn huī'àn, mímáng qiě záluàn.



Wúlùn shì zhào liàng, háishì zhēdǎng, dōu shì qiányímòhuà de, nǐ shēn chǔ qízhōng, háo wú chájué. Ér nǐ néng zuò de, biàn shì chén dìngběn xīn, dǔ shǒu dǐxiàn, yuǎnlí wù mái, bēn xiàng guāngmíng.



Ér duìyú nàxiē wúfǎ yuǎnlí de qīnrén hé péngyǒu, wǒmen bùfáng jiù zuò nàgè zì dài guāngmáng de rén, yīnwèi zì dài guāngmáng de rén, zì yǒu tā de rénshēng gāodù.